Do you want to stop a divorce? But fail to do so. Still didn’t know why your marriage is failing? They are reported reason why marriage is fail which is the main reason why marriage is fail. The first reason is
Finances
Nowadays, people keep saying that finance is might be the main reason why people fail in the marriage more than anything else. I think that we think that the money is the mother of all relationship. The way we think that the money is important in marriage taught us when having financial problems that might lead to marriage problems. It is not only about people have money or don’t have money, it is how they deal with money that might lead to financial problems and marriage problems. Finance is going to be a real symptom of the real reason. The financial management might stop a divorce if manage properly.
Parenting
Many others say that having child can or cannot stop a divorce. It is tough enough to raise a child but is seem to be harder to agree on how to raise that child and how to come together to agree to raise that child from the babyhood all the way to adulthood. It is good to discuss with your spouse about this questions:
- Do you we want to have children?
- How many children do we want to have?
- How long should we be married before having children?
- What kind of parent do you think you will be?
- What is your philosophy? Will one of us stay home after we have children?
After these questions were gone through with your partner, so you might have save your marriage as a reward to yourself.
In-Law Relationship
Having an in-law relationship sometimes sounds more like your in-laws are a burden in your life. Perhaps you fell caught between trying to please them on the other hand just want to be yourself. The disagreement between you and your in-laws can affect your spouses as well. Your spouse might catch in the middle between you and his parents. Try to avoid having disagreement between you and in-laws. Your spouse suppose try to made a win-win situation between you and his parents. Sometimes, your spouse was push by their parents to show you your spouse is on their side. It may burden your spouse and affect your marriage as well. So make a good relationship with your in-law and try to take your spouse heart and stop a divorce
Extra-marital relationship
As we know that having an affair has a negative effect to those who suffer. For instance, damage to self-esteem. Whoever has been cheated will suffer to his or her self-esteem. He or she might have a taught that they have something lack in themselves. Moreover, they might think that the other man or women more sexually attractive for example better than them. All of this reason might damage their self-esteem. So, don’t ever try to have an extra-marital relationship which is can damage your spouse’s self-esteem. It is seem like to cause the marriage problems. Avoid this if you want to stop a divorce.